AYYO, STEPH.

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slimmcharles:

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mustyballsack:

me on my pay day. 

me when the girl I like texts me first

Me when I get food

When I’m in the pussy

whole time that was Pac just because…the difference lol

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jellobatch:

What would happen if there here were black time travelers lmfao

There would be SO many people I need to punch in the face

All the founding fathers

Lincoln

I’d take a shit on Ronald Reagan a couple times

Good lord it would be so much fun

I’d fuck Robert E. Lee’s ass up

King Leopold I’ll get fucked up

I’d smack the piss outta Susan B. Anthony 

man that shit would be fun

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thisisnotindia:

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glitterlion:

“Don’t do impressions of other races.” - Angie Jordan (portrayed by Sherri Shepherd) from 30 Rock

Seems so simple, and yet…

some people need this to be explained repeatedly and even still.. 

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fudgedeelight:

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I literally had to get up. leave the room, bury my face and i towel and scream

Crying hysterical tears

lolololololololol

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girljanitor:

One thing I’ve noticed that’s an interesting note of cultural differences within America is the gendering of hairstyles. I’ve included variations above of the two-braids hairstyle that, where I come from, is a common male hairstyle.

I’ve included two pictures of Snoop Dogg, who is probably for most people the most famous wearer of this hairstyle in a national/international context. Snoop of course is a bit of a dandy, with the signature long hair that’s obviously pampered and well-cared for. An important note: Snoop is from the LA area, specifically Long Beach, which is also my birthplace and hometown.

I’ve also included a photo of Willie Nelson, who’s rather famous for appropriating the two-braids hairstyle, which is generally considered to be the domain specifically of men of color. The braids are most popular among men of indigenous, mestizo, or Mexican descent, including young Black men.

For young Black men who do not perm their hair, the cornrow-braids hairstyle is a bit more common; six cornrowed braids that are then braided again at the base of the neck into two braids instead of hanging free.

Additionally, being a male and having your hair prepared in this style gives another message: that there is a woman who cares for you enough to take care of your hair like this, whether a mother, grandmother, aunt, wife, sister, or girlfriend. It can have the connotation of being spoiled, como “trenzcito” which means “little braid(ed boy)”; it adds a connotation of “baby boy” or “youngest son”.

Two instances of culture clash: when I first moved up north, I commonly fixed my hair in two long braids, which were almost waist length. In Cali, this is a “butch” hairstyle, or at least kinda gender-neutral. I got so many (sexist AND racist) comments about it, especially at work, that I ended up cutting my hair off an inch or two from my scalp.

Another is my ex-husband had very long hair, which I used to carefully and lovingly braid for him as part of my marianisma duties: a single long braid, the double-braid-in-one style pictured above, two sleek braids parted in the middle, and on special occasions, box braids. In contrast, my (white) partner now really doesn’t like me to do anything to his hair at all; he considers it to be kinda feminizing and/or something only to be done in private. I always end up feeling vaguely offended and rejected, but I just have to remind myself that it’s honestly a cultural difference, and that his lack of braids doesn’t reflect poorly on my care for him.

It’s really kind of funny if you think about it. I’m always imagining people see my unbraided partner at work and their pity upon him for being so unloved, before I remember this is the north and no one thinks that here. Still, it doesn’t stop me from wanting to yell, “make sure they know that I LOVE you!” every day when he leaves for work.

This is great commentary but I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t focused on dude in the center most of the time.

Mine is a multipurpose and flexible blog

come for the commentary

stay for the beauty

lol this makes me think of Mario’s song “Braid my hair”

OMG YES THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT

I didn’t even know the song before (lol I still listen to the music I listened to in high school because I’m an old people) but I looked at the music video and listened to the song, and it’s basically about everything i just wrote about.

“sit me down like you love me.”

I like how this post came up when I did an image search for my url.

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